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FAQ

The questions we've heard so far. If yours isn't here, email us — we're easy to reach.

What's the dress code?

Garden-formal. Think linen, light colors, comfortable shoes for grass. Heels — your call, but the ceremony lawn is uneven.

Can I bring a plus-one?

If your invitation lists a plus-one, absolutely. If you're not sure, just email us — we'll figure it out.

Are kids welcome?

We love your kids. The welcome dinner and brunch are kid-friendly; the Saturday evening reception is adults-only so the grown-ups can relax.

Will the ceremony be inside or outside?

Outside, on a covered terrace. We have a backup spot if the weather turns dramatic.

Is there parking?

Free parking at the hotel. If you're staying elsewhere, valet is available at the venue Saturday evening.

When should I RSVP by?

By [date TBD]. After that we have to finalize numbers with the caterer.

Any dietary stuff you should know?

Yes — please put it on your RSVP. The kitchen is happy to handle allergies, vegetarian, vegan, kosher, halal.

Can I take photos during the ceremony?

We'd love you to be present with us — the photographer's got it covered. Phones away for the ceremony, please.